Digital Resources And Tools Announces Release Of Free Marriage Report Revealing The Reasons Why Coup

Every couple wants to be married and living happily ever. But the reality is unless they know what they are and should be doing to keep their relationship strong and healthy, chances are their marriages may not stand the test of time as it requires committment and tolerance from both parties even though our society clearly states and judges that men should bear the most burden since they are perceived to be the stronger alpha mates and have the tendency to hurt women more than the other way round.

Marriage is different from dating. In dating, you can afford to be casual in the way you approach, speak and carry yourself towards others. Unless your parents are restrictive and traditional thinking types when it comes to friendships and relationships, you can mix around with anybody you want and say whatever you want to say so long as it does not hurt others in background, character, race or religion. But in marriage, you cannot afford to be like this anymore. You have to be sensitive and take into account what your spouse and in-laws think and say about you. As well as your children if you and your spouse are planning to have babies to form a "complete family."

It is no longer just a work life balance but a responsibility on both parties. In terms of how you spend your time, who you spend your time with, what and how much did you spend on everyday. All these will have to be taken into considerations. Because of all these which have to be abided by each and everyday, it becomes a tremendous burden for the couple who can no longer afford to live the life they used to. And when they have their new-born babies and children growing up in latter years, the time and money they used to set aside for themselves and families become lesser as the responsibilities become greater.

Freedom is no longer an option. Not unless their children grew up and able to work and support themselves and families. By which time they will be old and no longer possesses the energy and drive to enjoy and live life to the fullest unless they enjoyed sports and exercising regularly.

Plus the extra time and committment to care for their parents and in-laws, the marriage no longer becomes a joy. It becomes a shell which they have to be within in order to be a good husband, wife and parent. For someone who is simple-minded and takes content in everything and anything in life, that is not a big issue. But for someone who yearns for freedom and has a specific interest or career that he wants to fulfil and achieve successs as early as possible, it is.

I have seen some couples trying to escape the everyday reality of caring for others but themselves routine chore by attending parties upon invitation by friends. Those parties look to be socializing events or even birthday occasions of another friend. But in actual truth, they served as breeding grounds for extra-martial affairs when the affected parties are women. Because when women got affected by pregnancy blues and stress of having to attend to the needs of their children, spouse, parents and in-laws, they have a greater desire of wanting to know men more. For men, it is more to do with work and having to manage their finances in spending for themselves and setting aside for their loved ones everyday.

When things got out of hand, they began blaming each other as a way of defending themselves and failing to look into the reasons behind their flaws. Heated words were exchanged and two things could happen. One, they never spoke to each other and contemplated divorce and even child custody if they are parents. Two, they ended up fighting which may resulted in tragedy sooner than they think.

When marriage becomes a heavy burden than joy, they no longer become happy. Instead of facing up to the real issues and work upon them, they even deceived each other.

That is what this free marriage report is all about. Up til now, it has never been released in any form of publication but simply as verbal advice and discussions among married couples as what is being mentioned can be very sensitive and yet critical information that every couple needs to know in order to stay together again.

Through good and bad times.